Tuesday, October 4, 2011

Questions Answered: Part One

Hello everyone.

First of all, I would like to thank everyone who sent us an email encouraging us to keep going with this (I assure you, we will) and the messages really helped (and appreciated!). Also, to those who sent us questions, rest assured we are going to answer ALL your questions, it's just going to take a little time. 

The Questions Answered is where we select some of the questions randomly and answer them (note that we answer almost all questions but just select to make a few public), if you want to ask us a question, feel free to use the Contact Us page, and mention if you would like to make your question public.


Q: "hey, i read the nothing written in stone post and my problem is that i always feel sad an depressed .. do u think its a excuse that i make not to feel happy ? becuz that did make alot of sense .. and haf the times i dont think i realy deserve to be happy"

A: The problem isn't that you think you don't deserve to be happy. The problem lays elsewhere. It's a totally different issue and trust me you're not alone in this. Many people wish to just be happy, joyful cheerful, feel fantastic and never let something bother them, but they forget that it doesn't work that way. You gotta understand that life is just a circle. You can't have the good, without the bad and it's pretty unfair for you to want that. To just be happy and never worry about anything else. This feeling WILL pass. Just give it time, today you're sad, tomorrow you'll be happy and vice versa. You can't have just the good things. Laugh, cry, have fun, get hurt, live your life and never regret anything and most importantly, LEARN from your mistakes and never be afraid to make them. 

Q: "What bothers me is why do ppl pretend to be something there not"

A: These people are often suffering so much in their life that they have no confidence whatsoever in who they are as a person. Thus they tend to create alternative personalites in their minds to fit themselves into what people expect/want them to be. Often they continue acting in their alternative personalities for so long it becomes unbearable for them and so they choose to end the friendship/relationship rather than their 'alias'. So to answer this question, low self-steem, and they aren't really confident about themselves and they think that people would neglect/hate them if they showed who they really are.

Q: "i wanna know how cruel a person can be and is it really a real thing that some people dont have any feeling like sorry for someone or something?"

A: People can be very cruel, and yes, some people after so long of doing it, can learn to turn off their feelings toward something or a situation, the root of this problem however is interesting, as most of them have been subject to the SAME hell they cause to others. Say if someone doesn't really feel sorry if they wronged someone, that means that this person has been wronged so many times it destroyed them and caused them to 'feel' nothing when they do it themselves. My advice would be to avoid mixing with that crowd (eventually, and slowly, they do start feeling everything, one tiny bit at a time).


In the end, I would like to thank everyone who has been supporting us, thanks for the emails, and keep the questions coming.

Until next time,
All the best.

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